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Know how to say No NICELY 1/2/2004
Hi all. Maybe I'm just a softie at heart, but I have a
really hard time saying "no" to requests I get.
A lot of people just ignore requests they don't like.
Or they string people along, thinking they are being "nice".
<br>
The best thing, absolutely the nicest thing you can do,
is to tell people the truth. We are all adults here. We know
that all of us have different wants, needs ...
0 Comments, 5 Views,
45 Votes
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Please Be Honest 1/2/2004
I have taken out three people I met on AdultFriendFinder. After each date
all three said they would like to go out again. Two of them
ask me out again, I ask the other. Then the same responce,
nothing. Why cant you just be honest and say "No Thank
You". The pain of being ask out and stood up is worse
than being told no thank you.
2 Comments, 49 Views,
22 Votes
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Reply to No Manners 12/30/2003
I agree that not to respond to an email when someone has made
the effort to write one is rude, I don't care if you are
a person who gets 100 emails a day, or 2 emails. I do understand
that if that person doesn't match your criteria, then
fine, maybe a response is not justified, but when the person
actually does match your profile, and you still don't
respond, that is just being lazy. The ...
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8 Votes
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Lack of honesty 12/29/2003
This is just a friendly bit of advice to all the women and
couples who are barraged on here by single men -- Please
be upfront --- Saying no is better than no reply.
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18 Votes
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Re: Rude People 12/29/2003
I understand what your saying. I made it pretty clear in
my profile that I'm a virgin and all the guys who read
it automaticly assume that i'm looking to lose it.
I've been known to not respond to some messages sent
to me too. With a site like this, a lot of guys on here just
assume that the women on here also want just sex and even
more than that. I feel if you tell a guy "No Thanks" ...
2 Comments, 67 Views,
17 Votes
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Replying in a timely manner 12/26/2003
Is it necessary to reply the same day when we receive an email?
Sometimes we dont check our email for a few days, and some
couples get annoyed when we dont respond right away. Is
there any written rules on this? Probably not
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43 Votes
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Why do some swingers feel like being assholes? 12/25/2003
Why can some swingers not just say no thank you or some other
responce...heck sitting around trying to see if someone
might be interested...it would be much nicer had the couple
just said no..and the worst thing I want to say about is single
men...I am sorry, but damn it it is nothing personnal...no
thanks means just that...the wife aand I can find a single
stud anytime of the day or night ...
0 Comments, 3 Views,
52 Votes
,6.47 Score
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how do I say no 12/25/2003
I keep running into the problem of saying no to girls. I had
girlfriends that I really liked and wanted more than sex
but that's all they wanted and I couldn't find
myself saying no to them. What are good ways for me to do that?
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31 Votes
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MOMMA DIDN'T TEACH YOU MANNERS? 12/23/2003
I've chatted with both men and women on this site (I'm
a female) and I must say, there are some extremely rude people
here. Just because this is a site focused on sexual relations
does not give one the license to be rude. Of course there
are those who just don't "get it", (no need
for the list). I am refering to the basic, "Thank you,
Good-nite, Bye, etc...
In CyberSex we are still ...
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41 Votes
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respect 12/15/2003
Please guys, read profiles first. Those women who are not
just out for sex don't want horney emails before they
get to know you!
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56 Votes
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Why is it 12/11/2003
Why is it that some people can not take no for an answer. After
all aren't we all adults here? I come across this all
the time. Call me picky if you want to but, this is a free country
and we all have the choice of who we want to be with. It just
irks me when someone writes to me and I very nicely tell them
I don't feel there is any spark or chemistry and many
times I have gotten very nasty ...
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45 Votes
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Try to be considerate 12/9/2003
I have attempted some contacts on AdultFriendFinder but only a couple have
replied. I realize that the ladies here probably get more
email than most of the guys and it is hard to answer all of
them but would it hurt you ladies to try to at least send a
real message (not auto-reply) response even if you aren't
interested? I'ld like to think I'm considerate
and not crude in my contacts, it would be nice to ...
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14 Votes
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how to tell a woman no thanks 11/28/2003
If you meet a woman and find out it is'ent there.
Just be a gentalman and finish the date and take her back
to her car or home, and tell her thank you for the date but
I just don't think it was there what we are both looking
for but i did have a good time and hope we still can chat and
be friends, i don't want you to think it's you it's
just i don't feel that spark. do you know what i'm ...
0 Comments, 5 Views,
35 Votes
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Anyone else have problems saying "No" when presented w/fine opportunities? 11/23/2003
I mean, when a woman you KNOW is bad for you wants you and she
is really fine....does anyone else have a problem saying
"no" when you know you should?
0 Comments, 4 Views,
10 Votes
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Just another one liner???? 11/19/2003
When you men send a response to a female and all it says is
Great tits! lets fuck! With no pic and then on YOUR profile
nothing filled out! Well I guess we should just allll jump
on that one right girls! We women at AdultFriendFinder DO get to pick and
choose who we consider to be OUR hottest choices! I admit
it I sure do! MY fuck friends are in my book of HOTTIES! Sooooooo
maybe when you ...
0 Comments, 25 Views,
136 Votes
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how do you say no and be nice 11/13/2003
sometime i am looking to hook up w/ someone over the internet,
and then they send me their picture and it makes me want to
hurl! i'm not trying to be mean but that's the truth.
in any case, how do you say "no thanks" without
being a complete jerk?
0 Comments, 26 Views,
1 Votes
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Just say no 11/11/2003
When someone say's No, they must, and do mean it.
If it's you out there, wanting to say no, and you can't
because you are scared to hurt there feelings, just say
no.
0 Comments, 177 Views,
12 Votes
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How to react when a lady say "no thanks"? 11/9/2003
I meet a lady friday. During weeks she send me e-mails saying
she was very intersted to meet me. A lot of teezing, you know.
We could pass the night together, make love all night, ...
I meet her at the restaurant, I pay everything. And then
she says "no thanks". It is really an abuse.
A lot of manipulation. And then she goes at an other get together
and she tell me! I mean... ...
0 Comments, 24 Views,
2 Votes
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How to say no thanks online 11/9/2003
Let's say that you've been talking to someone
online for a few weeks. You are really getting to know each
other and the way she described herself really makes you
think that she is attractive. Then when she finally sends
you a picture you find that she is extremely unattractive.
How do you let her down. Do you just stop talking to her, do
you tell her that she is ugly. What do you do?
0 Comments, 14 Views,
2 Votes
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Why would you ignore an Auto-Reply? 10/30/2003
I have auto reply set up and it clearly states that if you
don't get a reply... then you probably won't get
one, so thanx, but no thanx.
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Being a (really hot) single woman on this site means that
I get lots of emails every day. I don't spend all my free
time on the internet and I'm here because I don't
really have the time nor inclination to go out and meet people
and ...
0 Comments, 22 Views,
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Sex site 10/30/2003
this is the AdultFriendFinder site. If all you are looking
for is friends and NOT sex...then try the regular friendfinder.com
site
I really hate getting responses saying..."lets
be friends"...I want to fuck!
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10 Votes
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Single Girl meeting Couples 10/26/2003
I am a single hot girl with a passion for men and women. I have
met with several couples on AdultFriendFinder. Some experiences were
great, some left a bad taste in my mouth. I've finally
learned how to leave feeling great.
<br>
Here's the dilemma: once all three of you have ackgnowledged
you find each other attractive and you are all horny, how
do you say no after meeting on a sex website?
...
0 Comments, 41 Views,
206 Votes
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Reality check for guys from a guy......... 10/23/2003
To all the guys who are complaining about the lack of responces
from women I have one suggestion for you....
Go to the browse page and checkout the numbers of women vs
men in your state....
I'm thinkin you're gonna find that men out number
the women by a large margin... As much as 10 to 1 in some cases....
It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure this out....
They get more responces ...
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210 Votes
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Why does it have to be so difficult? 10/13/2003
In everyday life, it's easy for someone to say "No",
or "No Thank You" in just about any given situation.
Why, then, is it so difficult for someone to respect those
words when you're behind closed doors. In personal
experience(s), we've run into a few pushy people.
I think it's a common thing really. However, those
people have completely respected our wishes. Out at a club,
it takes a ...
0 Comments, 19 Views,
68 Votes
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Response to Be Nice Take The Time......... 10/13/2003
Are you kidding me?!?!?!?!?! Saying that anyone on this
site must be responsible and to respond to someone is absolutely
ridiculous!!!!! We respond to everyone that takes the
time to send us something, it's called courtesy, but
we're not obligated or responsible for making sure
someone doesn't get their feelings or pride hurt on
a swinger's site. While your article may not pertain
directly ...
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Polite in the reply 10/12/2003
Some ladies do have the curtesy to reply even with a "not
interested" note. Thank you; I do appreciate it.
I reply to everyone who writes to me, eventually.
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Now and then, the reply is... rude. Such as "F*** off!!!"
or "You are swinging without your wife? That's
how people die!" One lady berated me for sending a
fantasy based on the interests she listed combined with
my own ...
0 Comments, 19 Views,
38 Votes
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My Boss' Sex Deflowered 10/12/2003
I was deflowered by my boss the third month I joined this
company. I was 20 then, with no sex experience at all because
my family was very strict with me. I remembered working
very late that night, when my boss called me into the conference
room. He locked the door behind my back and I was surprised.
Then he come up to me, and hold me around my waist. He whispered
in my ears that my ...
0 Comments, 159 Views,
96 Votes
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Re: I wish I could say "no thanks"without losing him!!... 10/10/2003
If your partner can’t see what swinging is doing to you,
he must be either remarkably unperceptive or just pretending
he hasn’t noticed. He sounds very insensitive to me. I appreciate
that you just don’t want to lose him. However the hard truth
is that you must let him know how you feel. If he fails to respond
in a suitably sensitive manner, then I’m afraid you should
dump him. ...
0 Comments, 29 Views,
31 Votes
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If two is company.....Is three a crowd? 9/26/2003
I am writing this in response to some articles regarding
whether or not to allow a third person into the relationship,
whether it be for a one time thing or an occassional repeat
and how to tell your significant other no if your not interested.
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First of all, I can only speak through my experience and
would like to state that it's going to be different
for everyone. With ...
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53 Votes
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Re: Move out and draw fire 9/24/2003
I suggest meeting in person ahead of time to mutually agree
that all parties are satisfied. If not, we should be able
to enjoy a couple of drinks and politely part ways. I feel
that this is much more respectful to everyone involved
and you probably won't even have to block them out.
Perhaps you may have made a real friend that you'd like
to hear from, from time to time.
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