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rm_19chooch 55 M
1  question
shaving - 6/3/2008

hi ive recently shaved my penis and sack for the first time in a very long time, this feels great but, and its a big BUT, how can i stop it itching??? my ball sack is very itchy after two or three days, daily shaving isnt an option as i work away a lot and sometimes the bathroom is little more than a metal bowl and cold water. if you have never shaved your sack it feels realy very good, try it!!! ...

25 response(s), 23 votes
josmith5 61 M
27  questions
COLOR; what is your favorite color,why? - 6/3/2008

what is your favorite color?why? how does it make you feel? also what color eyes do you have? has your favorite color always been your favorite?or has it changed?

14 response(s), 15 votes
rm_gowildsafely 42 F
4  questions
Thoughts on Piercings? - 6/3/2008

Hey all... I'm just looking to see what everyone thinks of piercings...particularly nipple piercings?

Of the men and women that I've been with who've had them I have loved them! So very sexy to me...but what do you think?

If you have them done, what do you think? Your experience? Your pain?

Anything?

The nips are next on "my list" to be done...

16 response(s), 18 votes
chocman26 48 M
14  questions
Cleaniness.... - 6/3/2008

I got a issue/question.I have met a few women on here that weren`t smelling to proper in that area and i couldnt continue with the date.If i was a woman... i would think that i would check myself before hooking up with a guy.I am pretty sure or i hope that all of us fellas take a shower to make sure that we are doing our part.I myself always take a long hot shower and always use colonge before ...

15 response(s), 24 votes
chocman26 48 M
14  questions
Traveling... - 6/3/2008

I am in located in the middle of California(Fresno, CA to be exact).Most Women that are on here are between 150-300 miles.Would that be strange to go that far to have fun with someone and How far would you travel to see someone???

13 response(s), 21 votes
rm_Sparkels74 41 F
3  questions
Does it really turn a man on, when the women he is having sex with it very loud and vocal? - 6/2/2008

Just curious to see if men really like vocal women and if so how vocal.

I myself and very vocal, moans, groans, talking. I don't usually scream, but I have on a few occasions. My most recent ex boyfriend loved it so much that it would make him cum, so I had to be careful if I didn't want the fun to end so soon.

Thoughts people....

20 response(s), 27 votes
Voyeurs - 6/2/2008

I'm new to the community, figured I'd take a moment to say hello to everybody.... uuh, hi.



So, my question.

Wheres the line between voyeurism and being a peeping tom? (lets go ahead and get the "hiding in the bush" out of the way)

It came up in a conversation, and I'd like to hear other peoples opinions.

Thanks in advance.

8 response(s), 18 votes
SexiLuvinGirl 61 F
81  questions
Tattoos On Women? Yes or No? - 6/2/2008

I happen to like tattoos and find them sexy if you have them done in good taste. I actually like tattoos on men. I don't, personally, have any, but do want to get a couple.

I, also would like opinions as to whether you feel a tattoo would affect the possibility of one being hired for a job?

Tattoos or No tattoos on women or does it matter?

What's your opinion?

20 response(s), 41 votes
rm_Jester3502 28 M
1  question
Cheating? - 6/2/2008

Ok this is my question. I am a married man but sence i have been married my sex life sucks. I hardly ever get layed and it has lost its pazaz totally when it does happen.

So my question is, is it totally wrong to be want to meet someone to fullfill me sexually even though i really do still love my wife very much, i just want someone to have a little fun with.

what do you think

32 response(s), 52 votes
itzchic824 37 F
37  questions
Do all women have a G-spot? - 6/2/2008

I sound so naive asking this, but I figured this is the best place to get some answers.

I seriously have never felt that spot that every claims is the magic spot. Not with a guy and not by myself.

So I was wondering if every woman has one?

I wonder also if this may be part of the reason I haven't had an orgasm either.

16 response(s), 23 votes
HotMochaIce 52 F
17  questions
Sex? - 6/2/2008

I am trying to get as many opinions about this as possible, so please speak up.



Is giving a blow job having sex? I consider it forelay, like being fingered. Some people say because it's called "oral sex, " it's sex. Some say because an orgasm can be achieved, it's sex. If that's the case, is fingering sex? What do yall think??



Shay
...

18 response(s), 25 votes
JigglesgigglesBl 68 F
29  questions
Opening Mail.. - 6/2/2008

Over the weekend I have had a problem..I can go anyplace on the site..No problem..But, When I go to the mail page..It freezes on me..I know a couple weeks back some were having problems with opening mail..Can anyone tell me what you did to get this problem fixed.. Thanks, Jig

15 response(s), 6 votes
rm_19harley86 67 M
19  questions
Blocked - 6/2/2008

If you are "honest" in your intentions, how do you get "someone" to belive you?

16 response(s), 24 votes
rm_bowlofchili 59 M
4  questions
Help! - 6/2/2008

What should I do to my profile to get more interest for the ladies out there. I joined to find hook ups not dead ends again.

13 response(s), 16 votes
pornloser 42 M
1  question
loogie sex - 6/1/2008

i used to like watching adult films, but lately i keep buying these movies that are literally so disgusting that i am not sure whether they are supposed to be arousing, or whether they are supposed to be some kind of gruesome sideshow.

they tend to start out with a dude forcing his rod down a woman's throat by tugging her head forward, his intention clearly being to make her face ...

13 response(s), 24 votes
Zane492 66 M
1  question
Sexual Preferences - 6/1/2008

OK, we all know this is primarily a sex site with boundaries, considerations and limitations. So do we ask early on what are the sexual preferences (likes, dislikes, do's and dont's, etc.) of the other(s) involved? Or do we go through a lot of time and mental energy and drawing our own conclusions what the other(s) like or expect? A penny for your thoughts.

38 response(s), 23 votes
SexiLuvinGirl 61 F
81  questions
Just How Kinky Are You? - 6/1/2008

It's called the Hotlanta Kink Test.... (type it in your browser) 100 questions to find out just how kinky you are?

I scored 512 - Kinkier Than Most

48 response(s), 34 votes
rm_gowildsafely 42 F
4  questions
How do you find a good lover? - 6/1/2008

No doubt, I love sex and am very hopen minded. I have no desire to find a "real" relationship right now, but I still need regular, constant, heart pounding sex.

But this is where my problem ocurrs. I can't seem to find what I'm looking for.

Someone who's readily available, ready, nicely hung, experiemental, friendly, kind, blah blah blah...

I seem to find those who ...

11 response(s), 21 votes
FunCouple403 59 C
1  question
When camming, how do you respond to incoming messages? - 6/1/2008

Does anyone know how you actually respond to the incoming messages when you are camming?

We get incoming messages, then try to answer them, but then they disappear, and we are never sure if they made it to the intended person. Tnen we never get a reply back. It seems like it's just not working right. Is there a trick to this that we just don't get?

Any suggestions?

...

7 response(s), 14 votes
SexiLuvinGirl 61 F
81  questions
Your Favorite Sexy Quotes Are? - 6/1/2008

A few of my favorite quotes are:

"Good sex is like good Bridge. If you don't have a good partner, you'd better have a good hand."

-- Mae West



"Fifty percent of the women in this country are not having orgasms. If that were true of the male population, it would be declared a national emergency."

-- Margo St. James

"As she lay there dozing ...

14 response(s), 12 votes
rm_Lidius_78 36 M
1  question
standard mail venting - 6/1/2008

what is the point of standard members having mail if we cant check the damn thing, I have gotten to letters from some one asking a simple question and when I click the subject line it goes to the billing page not allowing me to read the mail

anyone else having this problem or am I just doing something wrong?

11 response(s), 16 votes
Iwantamansbutt2 55 M
18  questions
Are gas prices affecting your hookups? - 6/1/2008

For those of you who were thinking about driving a long distance to meet someone ...

Is the price of gas putting a damper on your efforts?

21 response(s), 29 votes
rm_WEEBIEnME 60 C
9  questions
HOW DO YOU FIX A MISUNDERSTANDING? - 6/1/2008

We met a really great couple on line and everything was perfect until I threw a wrench into the works. They very much wanted to meet and us likewise them.Around June 19 they stated that they really wanted to meet.I sent them a reply that I was going to be out town from the 22nd until the 26th.HERES where I think things fell apart.On the 21st they again said how much they wanted to meet and I ...

15 response(s), 24 votes
SexiLuvinGirl 61 F
81  questions
Dirty Talk In Bed? Sexy As Hell Or Not For Me - 6/1/2008

Do you like it when your partner talks dirty to you or do you find it a turn off?

Hmmm.... TALK DIRTY TO ME! I THINK IT'S SEXY AS HELL!

37 response(s), 41 votes
SexiLuvinGirl 61 F
81  questions
Kissing? Kissing Likes And Dislikes? - 6/1/2008

I love to kiss and I consider myself a very passionate kisser. I recently met a man from AdultFriendFinder that claimed he was a great kisser and loves to kiss. SURPRISE SURPRISE SURPRISE

I never said anything to him, but did relay some subtle hints in a cute kinda way, by kissing him just like he kissed me. I understand that we all have our own ways of doing things, but DAMN!

I ...

16 response(s), 28 votes
mutual2007 65 M
15  questions
warnings and disclaimers - 6/1/2008

While browsing some profiles this morning I kept seeing a quasi-legal notice in the profile. Is this something new? Did I miss the memo? Are outside sites using our profiles for profit? Or is it just paranoia? One of the profiles strongly suggested that everyone post this in their profile?

WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - ...

9 response(s), 24 votes
whiteonly2006 43 C
7  questions
older or younger - 6/1/2008

Is it better to be with older more experience couples or younger more trainable couples

18 response(s), 19 votes
Profile pictures - 6/1/2008

I was wondering what the general concensus was on how you feel about profile pictures with the person having sex with someone...Cock pictures are ok, but I don't really prefer seeing them buried in someones pussy or ass. Is it just me???

13 response(s), 22 votes
woodluv2pleseu2 58 M
88  questions
Where are the numbers coming from? - 6/1/2008

I have read many times over that the men outnumber the woman on this site. I don't doubt that is true. I have seen folks say it is a 10 to 1 or a 15 to 1 ratio. I really don't think that Charlie Eeps could determine the exact ratio. Mort of us are aware that there are way too many "dead" files here Ones that are marked as not visiting in three months, that have been so for over eight months. We ...

8 response(s), 10 votes
rm_F22Raptor108 43 M
1  question
Ladies, your opinion please..... - 6/1/2008

Okay, let's say that us men are looking around for a woman for whatever. Is there a certain way to send you a message that will initiate a response from you? I know that you probably want to hear different things depending on what you're here for. I mean, I'm sure you wouldn't want a message saying how nice your "nether regions" are and what we'd like to do to them when all you're on ...

12 response(s), 18 votes